Thursday, October 29, 2009

A Treatise on Kindness...

Alright, everyone....

I had planned to post about Missouri--and I will catch up--but even during this hectic but wonderful time heading up to Halloween, I wanted to stop a moment and tell you a few stories of kindness.

I'm not the luckiest person in the world. I've never had the job that would make my parents proud or that would keep me secure. I've never been the prettiest, skinniest, most popular. I've often taken the path less traveled to find much of it coming to a dead end. I've been downright hard to deal with at times, even unloveable. Despite this, though, people have bothered to care, to bless me with little tokens of love in one form or another. Friendship, small gifts, a hello...well, you know what I mean.

I wanted to share a little (more) of this today....

Several weeks ago, I hosted a bee workshop. The attendance was low--a group from PA, with children showed up. The owner was a highly sustainable farmer who grew mushrooms. At the end of the discussion, this is what I was gifted with....

Mushrooms....


And more mushrooms...


So many, in fact (those fuzzy guys are mushrooms called pom-poms, by the way)...

That we barely could fit them into the fridge!!

Trust me, you're looking at HALF of what was given to us!

And they were EXCELLENT! So, if you are interested in some amazing mushroom products, PLEASE stop by Phillips Mushroom Farms website! Great people and great product!

The second act of kindness is a little different. I have a friend, fellow farmer and farm writer Tina Michelle who has the fabulous online Small Town Living...she is funny, very kind, the kind of person who radiates and loveliness....

From her, I learned of a family with three wee girls whose mother was having surgery, and that they might not have Halloween festivities (though I was sure that was the least of their problems)...and would anyone be so kind to send the family Halloween things?

Who could say no to this? So, off went three wee packages of goodies in a box, to three wee girls, a little earlier this week.

I had an acquaintance earlier this week who, when I told her the story said: "well, you don't have much money, why are you sending gifts to people you don't know?"

The way I look at it is this: we all are given opportunities to show kindness. WE are the gifts, and we are all gifts to each other, potential friends to be made--friends in waiting--and not strangers. Yes, it's sappy. Perhaps unrealistic, even. But I won't apologize. The idea of three little happy girls makes me happy. And sometimes, it's as simple as that.

Happy Halloween everyone!
What are everyone's Halloween plans! We plan a full day of fun and festivities Friday and Saturday! More on that, soon...

18 comments:

  1. Such a nice post! Your kindness to strangers is inspiring to me. I love that you want to make someone's day without even knowing who they are. That is so cool!

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  2. Such a sweet post. Kindness does indeed matter. Even the smallest token. You never know what greatness a kind word or small gift means to someone. And oddly, it's always returned somehow. Sort of a pay it forward type thing.

    Now I have to ask -- what in the world will you do with all of those lovely mushrooms?? Can you freeze them?? Welcome home and Happy Halloween!

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  3. Thank you Heidi :)

    Lisa---umm, do you WANT any mushrooms? Please? They are laughing at me everytime I open the fridge door. They are having a PARTY in there, I swear!

    Ok, kidding aside, yes, you can freeze them...which is prolly what we will have to do because I think we have enough to last the rest of the year!

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  4. Your act of kindness touched me. I'm sure 3 little girls are giggling with joy over your gift. Well done!

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  5. The Love in your heart wasn't put there to stay. Love isn't Love till you give it away!
    Happiness was born a twin. It must be shared to be fully appreciated.

    I know you made those two little girls' day by sharing your love with them. ♥

    Huggles!

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  6. Sorry, I meant to say three little girls...I was thinking of my two granddaughters....

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  7. Zan,
    Your post touched my heart.
    Thanks so much for sharing :)
    Dang, that's a whole heck of alot of mushrooms.

    ~Diane

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  8. The kindness you showed to total strangers is the kind of act that defines enlightenment. Thank you for sharing. The universe always gives back in ways we may not realize. Thank you for shaing.

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  9. I totally believe that we are each here to help make the lives of others more bareable! (how the heck do you spell bareable??!!)
    How sad it would be to waste our gifts! I'm sure that those little girls had big amazing grins on their faces when they recieved those bags!
    YOu rock!
    and whatever are you going to do with allll those mushrooms?
    haha!
    hugs
    vivian

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  10. Wow, great post, Have a Happy Halloween, I'll be witchie and handing out the goodies, the kids come here in truck-loads, safe neighborhood full of seniors LOL
    Karey

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  11. Sappy? No, not at all. I don't think anything compares to acts of human kindness.....Spark of life

    Hugs to you my friend

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  12. I just adore you!! And I pray that once you make it to full time farm living it will be close to me. I'd love to be your neighbor. And I so identify with this post, the second paragraph in particular, I could have written it myself! Not being the most popular, skinny or loveable may have made for a long and hard journey but it's culminated into quite an astounding woman! I'm proud to know you!

    Jamie

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  13. I'm checking out those MUSHROOMS! As for KINDNESS, you are tough act to follow! The heart in that little body of yours is bigger than the earth! You make us all want to be a person! WHOOOHOOOO HAVE a wonderful and safe HALLOWEEN! We must plan for next year, it totally got away from me this year! Love ya
    Cheers

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  14. Every kindness you give will be returned to you time and time again.

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  15. Wishing you an enchanting Halloween!

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  16. You are the sweetest with a heart full of love!
    I'm going to have to check out that mushroom farm, love them and honey too!
    Wishing you a very safe and magical Halloween! xoxox :)

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  17. Guys, I am blushing over here. I wanted to say that I would say the same of each of you. I am lucky to have friends I've never personally met, but who are kind and remarkably creative. I have learned so much from each of you. I understand we are all human, but I must say I am so impressed by all of you!

    Many happy returns and blessings!

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